Hey you! First of all—congratulations on your engagement! If you're here, you’re probably deep in wedding planning mode (or just starting), and while it's such a magical time, it can also feel like a lot. From the guest list to flower arrangements, the little details can pile up fast. Let’s talk about six common wedding mistakes many couples make—and how you can dodge them like a pro.
1. Not Setting a Clear (and Realistic) Budget
The mistake: Starting to book vendors and buy things before figuring out how much you can actually spend.
What to do instead: Sit down with your partner (and anyone else contributing) and map out your total budget. Break it into categories like venue, attire, catering, photography, etc. Prioritize what really matters to you—for some it’s the food, for others it’s the dress or the band.
Tip: Always leave a buffer of 10–15% for unexpected costs (they always pop up!).
2. Trying to Please Everyone
The mistake: Letting family, friends, and even coworkers influence every decision—from your venue to your guest list.
What to do instead: Remember, this day is about you two. Take opinions with a smile, but stay true to your style and values. It’s okay to say “thank you for the suggestion,” and still do your own thing.
Example: If you want a small beach wedding and your aunt wants a grand ballroom—guess what? The beach wins.
3. Overstuffing the Day’s Schedule
The mistake: Trying to fit in everything—first look, dance performances, outfit changes, photo sessions, and more.
What to do instead: Keep your timeline manageable. Leave space to breathe, eat, and enjoy the moment. Cramming too much will make you feel rushed and exhausted.
Tip: Add in at least 10–15 minutes of “just us” time post-ceremony to soak it all in together.
4. Ignoring the Guest Experience
The mistake: Focusing so much on your own details that you forget about your guests’ comfort.
What to do instead: Think through their experience from arrival to dinner. Are there signs to direct them? Enough seating? Water or fans for an outdoor summer wedding?
Example: If your ceremony is on a grassy lawn, have flip-flops or heel protectors available. It’s a small touch that makes a huge difference.
5. Not Hiring (or Assigning) a Day-of Coordinator
The mistake: Taking on all the responsibility yourself or leaving it to a family member to “wing it.”
What to do instead: Even if you don’t hire a full planner, having someone manage the schedule and vendor coordination on the day is important. You should be sipping bubbly, not chasing down the florist.
Tip: Can’t hire a pro? Ask a super-organized friend who isn’t in the bridal party—but make sure they’re up for it and understand what’s involved.
6. Forgetting What the Day is Really About
The mistake: Focusing so much on your own details that you forget about your guests’ comfort.
What to do instead: Think through their experience from arrival to dinner. Are there signs to direct them? Enough seating? Water or fans for an outdoor summer wedding?
Example: If your ceremony is on a grassy lawn, have flip-flops or heel protectors available. It’s a small touch that makes a huge difference.
Planning a wedding isn’t about making it perfect—it’s about making it yours. Stay grounded, laugh through the hiccups, and don’t forget to enjoy the ride. You’re creating memories that’ll last a lifetime!